We attract the people, places, and things that are a vibrational match to ourselves. So if a lesson is presenting itself to you again and again, you must allow yourself to confront it head on and to truly experience it. Be still, be present, and breathe. Look for what it is trying to teach you. Push through the fear, push through the emotions, and invite change within. By fully experiencing the lesson, you will move through it, beyond it, and you will no longer attract it into your life. Through the experience, you will identify and confront the barriers that keep you from peace, happiness, abundance, intimacy, and love. This is growth. This is the evolution of consciousness. This is the art of becoming. This is self love.